STUMPED, ABOUT WHAT'S YOUR 2009 NEW YEARS RESOLUTION?

New Year's Eve has always been a time for looking back to the past, and more importantly, forward to the coming year. It's a time to reflect on the changes we want (or need) to make and resolve to follow through on those changes. Did your New Year resolutions make my top ten list?

1. Spend More Time with Family & Friends: Recent polls conducted by me online @ google and ask.com shows that more than 50% of Americans vow to appreciate loved ones and spend more time with family and friends this year. Make plans to meet up with friends for an evening of camaraderie at your favorite bar or take the family to one of these popular family filed activity places. Work shouldn't always come first! For Me More Home & Family in 2009.

2. Fit in Fitness: The evidence is in for fitness. Regular exercise has been associated with more health benefits than anything else known to man. Studies show that it reduces the risk of some cancers, increases longevity, helps achieve and maintain weight loss, enhances mood, lowers blood pressure, and even improves the sex life, go figure. In short, exercise keeps you healthy and makes you look and feel better. Why not make this the time to start getting in shape for one of these 30 min a day gyms or just committing to a healthier lifestyle ?

3. Tame the Bulge: Over 66 percent of adult Americans are considered overweight or obese, so it is not surprising to find that weight loss is one of the most popular New Year's resolutions. Setting reasonable goals and staying focused are the two most important factors in sticking with a weight loss program, and the key to success for those millions of Americans who made a New Year's commitment to shed extra pounds. *remember weight loss and fitness are not the same, but go hand and hand.

4. Quit Smoking: (But I just started !) If you have resolved to make this the year that you stamp out your smoking habit, over-the-counter availability of nicotine replacement therapy now provides easier access to proven quit-smoking aids.(try rewarding yourself for not smoking day by day, I reward with shoes or a lavish cocktail) Even if you've tried to quit before and failed, don't let it get you down. On average, smokers try about four times before they quit for good. Start enjoying the rest of your smoke-free life! Even Atlantic city casino's is trying to go smoke-free, and it's taken them a few tries as well. Locally, there are a variety of free support services, hotlines and smoking cessation classes to help you kick the smoking habit.Believe me this one is gonna be hard for me as well but with my cigarette's at $9.75 it will get much easier.

5. Enjoy Life More: Given the hectic, stressful lifestyles of millions of Americans, it is no wonder that "enjoying life more" has become a popular resolution in recent years. It's an important step to a happier and healthier you! Consider one of the many spa's and resorts that are scattered though out the tri state area or shop for at home products designed to bring balance to your body, mind and soul. Or just get out and try something new! Take up a new hobby or try your hand at skiing. Go to a theater performance in New York, or head outdoors to take in all it's beauty. I know NY offers a wealth of artistic and recreational activities to meet just about anyone's wishes.

6. Quit Drinking: (Now that idk !) While many people use the New Year as an incentive to finally stop drinking, most are not equipped to make such a drastic lifestyle change all at once. for instance I will consider not to drink as much, last year it was to not drink dirty martini's and have stuck to my guns but in 2009 that's what I'm heading for.Many heavy drinkers fail to quit cold turkey but do much better when they taper gradually, or even learn to moderate their drinking. If you have decided that you want to stop drinking, there is a world of help and support available. Alcoholics Anonymous offers meetings throughout the tri state area. There is also a group for Parents of Teenage Alcohol and Drug Abusers online. There are also a number of treatment-based programs, as well as support groups for families of alcoholics. bottom line if it has gotten out of hand and you cant do it alone, get help. *My mother always said "you control it, don't let it control you and if it get out of your control: Then stop."

7. Get Out of Debt: Was money a big source of stress in your life last year? Join the club, millions of Americans who have resolved to spend this year getting a handle on their finances was only destroyed by the dwindling economy. but if you can, It's a promise that will repay itself many times over in the year ahead am grateful I did. Start with just keeping better records of your money, follow Suze Orman's advice or hire a financial adviser for help.

8. Learn Something New: Have you vowed to make this year the year to learn something new? Perhaps you are considering a career change, want to learn a new language, or just how to fix your computer or clean your closet? Whether you take a course or read a book, you'll find education to be one of the easiest, most motivating New Year's resolutions to keep. The Community Colleges offers a wide variety of "lifelong learning" courses, and local YMCA's offer great recreational training for beginners of all ages. Most local colleges and universities offer distance and adult education programs. Or if the arts are more your thing, places such as the Metropolitan Museum of Art and the New Jersey Center for the Arts offer adult studio classes.

9. Help Others: A popular, non-selfish New Year's resolution, volunteerism can take many forms. Whether you choose to spend time helping out at your local library, mentoring a child, or building a house, there are many nonprofit volunteer organizations that could really use your help. The New Jersey based Urban Cares llc, organization helps children with behavior problems and probably can use volunteers. Or if your time is really in short supply, maybe you can at least find it in you to donate the furniture, clothing and other household items that you no longer need, rather than leaving them out by the curb to fill up our landfills.

10. Get Organized: On just about every New Year resolution top ten list, organization can be a very reasonable goal. Whether you want your home organized enough that you can invite someone over on a whim, or your office organized enough that you can find the stapler when you need it, these tips and resources should get you started on the way to a more organized life. New Jersey has quite a few professional organizers who can help you reduce the clutter in your life and find peace in your home. Professional organizers even offers a a six-month clutter free plan to get organized. I m pretty together in this department, but I Might Need it Someday for lack of closet space!. LOL

WELL HAPPY RESOLUTIONS, AND HAPPY NEW YEARS TO YOU AND YOUR!!!!!!!

WHATS THE PERFECT NEW YEARS EVE OUTFIT?

NEW YEARS EVE IS IN LESS THAN 24HRS,WHAT AM I WEARING?

*HERE'S SOME IDEAS ON WHATS HOT FOR THIS NEW YEARS EVE "08"

A DIVINE DIVA OF ALL GENERATIONS

Eartha Mae Keith

Eartha Mae Kitt (January 17, 1927[1] – December 25, 2008)[2] was an American actress, singer, and cabaret star. She was perhaps best known for her 1953 Christmas song "Santa Baby". Orson Welles once called her the "most exciting woman in the world."[3] She took over the role of Catwoman for the third season of the 1960s Batman TV series,

Biography

Early life
Kitt was born Eartha Mae Keith on a cotton plantation in North, South Carolina, a small town in Orangeburg County near Columbia, South Carolina. Her mother was of Cherokee and African-American descent and her father of German and Dutch descent. She claimed she was conceived by rape.
Kitt was raised by her mother's sister, Anna Mae Riley, an African-American woman whom she believed to be her mother. Kitt claimed that she suffered abuse and neglect at the hands of a family to whom Anna Mae Riley entrusted her—"given away for slavery," as she described it in many interviews. Kitt said that as she was given away, she always wondered who would accept her and was afraid of being rejected. After Riley's death, she was sent to live in New York City with Mamie Kitt, who she learned was her biological mother; she had no knowledge of her father, except that his surname was Kitt and that he was supposedly a son of the owner of the farm where she had been born.Newspaper obituaries state that her white father was "a poor cotton farmer.

Career
Eartha Kitt began her career as a member of the Katherine Dunham Company and made her film debut with them in Casbah (1948). A talented singer with a distinctive voice, her hits include "Let's Do It", "Champagne Taste", "C'est si bon", "Just an Old Fashioned Girl", "Monotonous", "Je cherche un homme", "Love for Sale", "I'd Rather Be Burned as a Witch", "Uska Dara", "Mink, Schmink", "Under the Bridges of Paris", and her most recognizable hit, "Santa Baby", which was released in 1953. Kitt's unique style was enhanced as she became fluent in the French language during her years performing in Europe. She had some skill in other languages too, which she demonstrates with finesse in many of the live recordings of her cabaret performances.

Film debut
In 1950, Orson Welles gave her her first starring role, as Helen of Troy in his staging of Dr. Faustus. A few years later, she was cast in the revue New Faces of 1952 introducing "Monotonous" and "Bal, Petit Bal", two songs with which she continues to be identified. In 1954, 20th Century Fox filmed a version of the revue simply titled New Faces. Though it's often falsely alleged that Welles and Kitt had an affair during her run in Shinbone Alley, Kitt categorically denied this in a June 2001 interview with George Wayne of Vanity Fair. "I never had sex with Orson Welles," Kitt told Vanity Fair, "It was a working situation and nothing else". In 1958, Kitt made her feature film debut opposite Sidney Poitier in The Mark of the Hawk. Throughout the rest of the 1950s and early 1960s, Kitt would work on and off in film, television and on nightclub stages. In 1964, Kitt helped open the Circle Star Theater in San Carlos, California. Also in the 1960s, the television series Batman featured her as Catwoman after Julie Newmar left the role.
However, in 1968, during the administration of President Lyndon B. Johnson, Kitt encountered a substantial professional setback after she made anti-war statements during a White House luncheon. It was reported that she made First Lady Lady Bird Johnson cry.[citation needed] The public reaction to Kitt's statements was much more extreme, both for and against her statements. Publicly ostracized in the U.S., she devoted her energies to overseas performances.
"In 1968 she was invited to a White House luncheon and was asked by Lady Bird Johnson about the Vietnam War. She replied: “You send the best of this country off to be shot and maimed. No wonder the kids rebel and take pot.” The remark reportedly caused Mrs. Johnson to burst into tears and led to a derailment in Ms. Kitt’s career."

Broadway
During that time, cultural references to her grew, including outside the United States, such as the well-known Monty Python sketch "The Cycling Tour", where an amnesiac believes he is first Clodagh Rodgers, then Trotsky and finally Eartha Kitt (while performing to an enthusiastic crowd in Moscow). She returned to New York in a triumphant turn in the Broadway spectacle Timbuktu! (a version of the perennial Kismet set in Africa) in 1978. In the musical, one song gives a "recipe" for mahoun, a preparation of cannabis, in which her sultry purring rendition of the refrain "constantly stirring with a long wooden spoon" was distinctive.
In 1984, she returned to the music charts with a disco song, "Where Is My Man", the first certified gold record of her career. "Where Is My Man" reached the Top 40 on the UK Singles Chart, where it peaked at #36;The song also made the Top 10 on the US Billboard dance chart, where it reached #7. The single was followed by the album "I Love Men" on the Record Shack label. Kitt found new audiences in nightclubs across the UK and the US, including a whole new generation of gay male fans, and she responded by frequently giving benefit performances in support of HIV/AIDS organizations. Her 1989 follow-up hit "Cha-Cha Heels" (featuring Bronski Beat), which was originally intended to be recorded by Divine, received a positive response from UK dance clubs and reached #32 in the charts in that country.

Later years
Eartha Kitt in concert, 2007
In 1992, Kitt had a supporting role as Lady Eloise in the hit film Boomerang starring Eddie Murphy. In the late 1990s, she appeared as the Wicked Witch of the West in the North American national touring company of The Wizard of Oz. In 2000, Kitt again returned to Broadway in the short-lived run of Michael John LaChiusa's The Wild Party opposite Mandy Patinkin and Toni Collette. Beginning in late 2000, she starred as the Fairy Godmother in the US national tour of Cinderella alongside Deborah Gibson and then Jamie-Lynn Sigler. In 2003, she replaced Chita Rivera in Nine. She reprised her role as the Fairy Godmother at a special engagement of Cinderella, which took place at Lincoln Center during the holiday season of 2004.
One of her more unusual roles was as Kaa the python in a 1994 BBC Radio adaptation of The Jungle Book. Kitt lent her distinctive voice to the role of Yzma in Disney's The Emperor's New Groove, for which she won her first Annie Award, and returned to the role in the straight-to-video sequel Kronk's New Groove and the spin-off TV series The Emperor's New School, for which she won two Emmy Awards and two more Annie Awards (both in 2007-08) for Voice Acting in an Animated Television Production. She had a voiceover as the voice of Queen Vexus on the animated TV series My Life as a Teenage Robot.
In recent years, Kitt's annual appearances in New York made her a fixture on the Manhattan cabaret scene. She would take the stage at venues such as the Ballroom and the Café Carlyle to explore and define her highly stylized image, alternating between signature songs such as Old Fashioned Millionaire, which emphasized a witty, mercenary world-weariness, and less familiar repertoire, much of which she performed with an unexpected ferocity and bite that presented her as a survivor with a seemingly bottomless reservoir of resilience: her version of "Here's to Life", frequently used as a closing number, was a sterling example of the latter. This facet of her later performances was reflected in at least one of her recordings, Thinking Jazz, which preserved a series of performances with a small jazz combo that took place in the early 1990s in Germany and which included both standards ("Smoke Gets in Your Eyes") and numbers ("Something May Go Wrong") that seemed more specifically tailored to her talents; one version of the CD includes as bonus performances a fierce, angry Yesterday and a live rendering of "C'est Si Bon" that good-naturedly satirized her sex-kitten persona.
From October to early December, 2006, Kitt co-starred in the Off-Broadway musical Mimi le Duck. She also appeared in the 2007 independent film And Then Came Love opposite Vanessa L. Williams.
In 1978, she did the voice-over in a TV commercial for the album Aja by the rock group Steely Dan.

Personal life
After romances with the cosmetics magnate Charles Revson and banking heir John Barry Ryan III, she was married to John William McDonald, an associate of a real-estate investment company, from June 6, 1960, to 1965. They had one child, a daughter, Kitt (b. 1962, married Charles Lawrence Shapiro). Eartha had two grandchildren, Jason and Rachel Shapiro. A long-time Connecticut resident, Kitt lived in a converted barn on a sprawling farm in the Merryall section of New Milford for many years and was active in local charities and causes throughout Litchfield County. Subsequently moving to Pound Ridge, New York, then in 2002 Kitt moved to the southern Fairfield County town of Weston, Connecticut to be near her daughter's family.
Kitt wrote three autobiographies – Thursday's Child (1956), Alone with Me (1976), and I'm Still Here: Confessions of a Sex Kitten (1989).

Kitt was the spokesperson for MAC Cosmetics' Smoke Signals collection in August 2007. She re-recorded "Smoke Gets In Your Eyes" for the occasion, was showcased on the MAC website, and the song was played at all MAC locations carrying the collection for the month.

Death
Kitt died after a long battle against colon cancer on Christmas Day, 2008 in Weston, Connecticut at the age of 81.

Awards and nominations
Awards :
1960 Hollywood Walk of Fame—6656 Hollywood Boulevard.
2001 Annie Award for Best Voice Acting by a Female Performer in a Featured Film—The Emperor's New Groove
2007 Annie Award for Best Voice Acting in an Animated Television Production—The Emperor's New School
2007 Daytime Emmy Award for Outstanding Performer in an Animated Program—The Emperor's New School
2008 Annie Award for Best Voice Acting in an Animated Television Production—The Emperor's New School
2008 Daytime Emmy Award for Outstanding Performer in an Animated Program—The Emperor's New School
Nominations
1966 Emmy Award for Outstanding Single Performance by an Actress in a Leading Role in a Drama—I Spy
1978 Tony Award for Best Actress in a Musical—Timbuktu!
1996 Image Award for Outstanding Supporting Actress in a Comedy Series—Living Single
2000 Tony Award for Best Featured Actress in a Musical—The Wild Party
2000 Drama Desk Award for Outstanding Featured Actress in a Musical—The Wild Party

Works; Discography
C'est Si Bon (1954)
Santa Baby (1954)
Santa Baby (1955)
Under The Bridges Of Paris (1955) (UK #7)
Just An Old Fashioned Girl (1958)
Che Vale Per Me (1968)
Where Is My Man (1983) (UK #36)
I Love Men (1984) (UK #50)
I Don't Care (1986)
This Is My Life (1986) (UK #73)
Arabian Song (1987)
Cha Cha Heels (Feat:Bronski Beat) (1989) (UK #32)
If I Love Ya Then I Need Ya (1994) (UK #43)
Santa Baby (2007) (UK #84)

A LIL SOMETHING FROM CHARLOTTE'S CLOSET !!!!!!

Kristin Davis did not fade off the edge of her Conservative world after all this Sex and the City hoopla. Not at all, she's heading to the drawing board to make sure Charlotte lives on forever. Kristin has been designing a clothing line for South Carolina–based retailer Belk based on items in her own closet, which she admits are very similar to the things Charlotte would wear. The apparel line is filled full of A-line skirts and dresses, blouses and other pieces that easily can be taken day to night or casual to evening. The pieces include feminine details like flowers and jewels, and the fabric weights are sensitive to the southern belles charm and similar to her character "Charlotte". The line is offered in sizes 2 through 18. "I don't even wear a zero, so they're not allowed," The soft spoken actress/designer said.
Davis said she wanted to design for Belk because she's from Columbia, South Carolina, and used to save her allowance to shop at the store. Leave it to the "Charlotte" in Kristin to progress wholesome childhood memories. I love that the actress/designer shares her style sensibility, not a life full of ponies, with her character, which totally makes me like her more, NOT TO MENTION THE TOTALLY AFFORDABLE PRICES!!!! The Kristin Davis line has debut in August at 126 of Belk's 307 stores but can be bought online @www.belk.com and cost from $4 to $240.

1. THE KRISTEN DAVIS "AMETHYST" BEAD DROP EARRINGS $4.99
2. THE KRISTIN DAVIS "FITTS" TALL BOOT $54.50
3. THE KRISTIN DAVIS SHADOW GREY "AGNETTE" PURSE $28.99
4. KRISTIN DAVIS "BETHY" PLATFORM TALL BROWN SUEDE BOOT $84.50
5. KRISTIN DAVIS DEEP V NECK BLACK "NATILE" HALF CARDIGAN $28.09
6. KRISTIN DAVIS HOT PINK, BOW FRONT "VALENTINE" SLEEVELESS BLOUSE $23.49
7. KRISTIN DAVIS SLEEVELESS PRINT "OMBRE" TEA PARTY DRESS $47.99
8. KRISTIN DAVIS LINEN "SPARKLE STARDUST" TRENCH COAT $61.66

HAPPY 'Charlotte" SHOPPING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

MERRY CHRISTMAS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Etymology:

The word Christmas originated as a compound meaning "Christ's Mass". It is derived from the Middle English Christemasse and Old English Cristes mæsse, a phrase first recorded in 1038.[3] "Cristes" is from Greek Christos and "mæsse" is from Latin missa. In Greek, the letter Χ (chi), is the first letter of Christ, and it, or the similar Roman letter X, has been used as an abbreviation for Christ since the mid-16th century.[8] Hence, Xmas is often used as an abbreviation for Christmas

SO AS YOU GO AND GET READY TO CELEBRATE THIS JOYOUS HOLIDAY, JUST REMEMBER THAT "JESUS IS THE REASON FOR THE SEASON" I HAVE LOST SO MANY CLOSE PEOPLE TO ME THIS YEAR AND YES EVEN ON CHRISTMAS ....THAT WAIT TO SEE WHAT GOD HAS IN STORE FOR ME, HE HAS NOT FAILED ME SO FAR AND ALTHOUGH THIS YEAR I FELT LIKE I COULD HAVE COLLAPSED AT ANY SECOND FROM THE BACK TO BACK TRAGEDIES.....I DIDN'T, I SURVIVED AND SO CAN YOU "GOD GIVES US NOTHING WE CAN NOT HANDLE"

SO TAKE THIS BIT OF ADVICE AND GO INTO 2009 NOT BITTER, COLD, AND SPITEFUL BUT WITH LOVE, RESPECT AND PATIENCE FOR ALL. 2008 HAS NOT BEEN EASY FOR ANYONE BUT WE CAN COME INTO 2009 WISER AND STRONGER AND WITH PERSEVERANCE WE WILL ALL MAKE IT TO 2010 WITH LOVE IN OUR HEARTS.

MERRY CHRISTMAS & MAY GOD BLESS AND KEEP YOU HAPPY THROUGHOUT THE NEW YEAR!

11 items for last min gifts!!!!!!!

LAST MINUTE SHOPPING TRY THESE IDEAS FOR SIZE:

1. The Clapper: The subject of the best television commercial in history is also the best gift for your friend, relative or spouse who has everything. Don't hook it up to something boring like a lamp. Try the Clapper on a blender ... or a life-support machine. Sure to get a round of applause. $24.95 at As Seen on TV store

2. Any Biggie or Jay Z album: Well if your not already a fan, any one of their albums will get you through some questionable times GUARANTEED!!!! Sure, it's does not have to be the latest album but any from them.

3. Snoopy Sno-Cone Machine: Can't believe they still sell this. It's significantly less delicious than you remember, but still an awesome gift for the young and old. Flavored syrup! $14.99 at Toys R Us

4. Charleston chews, Chico sticks or your favorite ghetto candy : Wars have started over these legendary candies. not only are they still tasty but but you also gave the gift of childhood memories. So why not be the hero of your holiday gathering and just for old time sake.

6. Risk or any card,board game : Who needs video games when you have the coolest board game of all time (sorry, Strategy)? Get the old-school version, not the stupid sequels and offshoots. What's next? Risk: Desperate Housewives edition? $21.99 at Target (remember uno cards target $2.00

5. Cheese: So many fine cheeses to choose from, but we're going with the 10-ounce Red Hawk, described on http://www.cowgirlcreamery.com/ as "a bold triple-cream cheese with a distinctive orange rind." That has to taste good. $35 at Cowgirl Creamery

7. Nightmare on elm street or Friday the 13th: Old school items are always welcomed those are my favorites but any movie from the past that has been converted to dvd will do the job; Philadelphia,pretty woman, juice etc...and also gift a plastic bag with it, so they can throw the vcr tapes away.

8. "Milk" tickets: You probably never would think of getting this for someone as a gift, but think about it with this bad economy, two tickets to the latest movie will be greatly appreciated especially at $10 a pop.

9. stuffed animals: And no I'm not talking about taxidermy making a comeback. (this gift can be for anyone) but check out the stuffed animals or cartoon characters, both would be fun and comes in various prices and sizes they can be found in just about all drugstores.

10. Baby wipes: Don't wait until you have kids to buy these, which are the ultimate paper product. In addition to wiping a baby's bum, they're good for eliminating deodorant marks, scrubbing down restaurant tables, disinfecting shopping carts, shining shoes, removing makeup, detailing your car, you all know how i feel about my wipes but if uncomfortable with this gift go a little extra and make a relaxation basket candles,soap,lotion,bath beads etc... wipes $2.99 at any drug store and try a dollar store for the gift basket idea.

11. Gift cards : Well to me they are so impersonal but in today's society who isn't, they cards can be issued at the store the gifts are to be purchased or now inside of any drugstore like rite-aides and wal-mart. the price is at your discretion.

HAPPY LAST MINUTE SHOPPING!!!!!!!

"now that, I DONT KNOW"!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Financial Intimacy

Cohabitation Agreement : Documentation for, If you're living with a partner (or planning to live with a partner) to whom you're not married, you may want to consider signing a cohabitation agreement.
*This is something that same-sex couples definitely should consider as well.

A cohabitation agreement is a written contract that sets forth your mutual rights and obligations with respect to joint and separate property, as well as stating any other financial or general obligations or expectations you wish to agree upon in advance of (or even after) moving in together.

You and your partner will need to hire separate lawyers to review and sign this agreement. This Cohabitation Agreement is provided by attorney Frederick Hertz, for a couple that is keeping most of their assets separate, and agreeing to not provide any post-dissolution support to one another (the unmarried equivalent to alimony). Frederick Hertz practices real estate and land use law in Oakland, California. His practice emphasizes the formation and dissolution of real property co-ownerships and property and financial agreements between unmarried couples (both same-sex and opposite-sex couples).

He also serves as a mediator and arbitrator in disputes between unmarried partners, both gay and straight. Mr. Hertz is the author of Legal Affairs: Essential Advice for Same Sex Couples (Henry Holt & Co./Owl Books) and co-author of the Nolo Press' Legal Guide for Lesbian and Gay Couples and Living Together: A Legal Guide for Unmarried Couples.

OK , LET ME JUST STATE FOR YALL THAT "I LOOOOVVVVEEEE ME SOME SUZE ORMAN" BUT DID SHE JUST LOSE HER GODDAMN SAPHIX MIND!!!!! LOL, BUT SERIOUSLY I KNOW MARRIAGE IS BASED ON LOVE AND THE DIVIDING AND PROTECTION OF ASSETS. BUT I WORKED SO HARD AND GAVE MY SWEETIE THE BEST YEARS OF MY THIGHS, IF WE WASN'T ALREADY MARRIED AND THIS WAS BROUGHT TO ME .....IDK. I MEAN ME AND MY SWEETIE HAVE SOMETHING DRAWN UP LIKE THIS, BUT IN OUR CASE ITS NOT TO TAKE AWAY FROM ME, ITS TO MAKE SURE I'M PROVIDED WITH ( IF OUR MARRIAGE {knock-knock on wood} WAS TO EVER FALTER) AND NOT SEND SWEETIE TO THE POOR HOUSE. SO I GUESS EVERYONE NEEDS SOME KIND OF AGREEMENT THAT GIVES THEM SANITY ........BUT AT THE END OF THE DAY, WHEN YOU SHACK UP, AND OR GET MARRIED ISN'T IT SUPPOSE TO BE BECAUSE YOU TRUST THIS PERSON WITH YOUR LIFE AND ALL YOUR ASSETS?

I KNOW LIFE IS UNCERTAIN BUT IF YOU ARE THINKING ABOUT THIS AND YOUR LAST NAME ISN'T ; CARTER, ROCKEFELLER, KNOWLES OR TRUMP THEN DOESN'T THIS JUST MAKE HE/SHE "NOT THE ONE" ANYWAY.

HAPPY PROTECTING OF ASSETS ( I GUESS)!!!!!!!!!!

SUSHI....THE OTHER WHITE MEAT!

I HAVE FOUND MY FAVORITE RESTAURANT !!!! OK, I'M BEING OVER DRAMATIC, IT'S MY SECOND FAVORITE ....... WELL MY BABY HAS SET THE BAR EVEN HIGHER, AND HAS NOT ONLY SURPRISED MY SMART ASS; WHEN I SAID "YOU PICK WHERE WE GOING FOR DINNER, AND PLEASE CAN IT BE SOMEWHERE DIFFERENT" (WITH THE ROLL OF MY EYES!) YALL KNOW ME. LMAO, WELL ANYWAY AFTER DRIVING A WHILE, WITH ME POPPIN MY GUM(IN REAL JERSEY GIRL FASHION) AND FILING MY NAILS ....HUFFIN & PUFFIN AND LETS NOT FORGET THE "OH BOYS"! YOU CAN IMAGINE ......I'M A LIL PEACH (RIGHT) WELL WE PULL INTO THIS FABULOUS PLACE, MY DOOR WAS OPENED FOR ME (OF COURSE I'M STILL ACTING VERY UNIMPRESSED) UNTIL MY SWEETIE OPENED THAT DOOR AND ESCORTED ME INTO THIS BEAUTIFUL OASIS WHERE WE LITERALLY WAS WALKING ON WATER W/ EXOTIC FISH SWIMMING BENEATH THE OAK STAINED STEPS ....YES AT THIS POINT THE GIG WAS UP, I WAS GAGGING..... AND IT WAS ALL OVER MY FACE..... AND SHE SMILED. MY SPOILED ASS!!!!!!!!!WELL WE HAD A WONDERFUL TIME.

HAPPY HIBACHI DINING!!!!!!!!!

ARIRANG HIBACHI STEAKHOUSE

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STEPPIN IN THE SNOW!!!!!!!

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WITH THIS COLD WEATHER SNOW BLAST WE JUST HAD ITS IMPERATIVE FOR
A LADY TO STAY WARM AND STILL FASHIONABLE, ABOVE ARE JUST A FEW
EXAMPLES ON HOW TO GO TIPPIN NOT SLIPPIN IN THE SNOW.

*NOTE MOST EXAMPLES HAVE A RIDGE OR RUBBER SOLE....GREAT FOR BAD WEATHER!!!!!







1:GUESS 'TEDDIE' BOOT $119.00 ( ZIPPERED SIDE PLATFORM KNEE BOOT)

2:BETSYVILLE 'LALA' PUFFER BOOT $77.00 (FLORAL DRAWSTRING BOOT)
3:JESSICA SIMPSON 'LOPEZ' BOOTIE $149.00 (BUCKLES ACROSS & DIAMOND ACCENT HEEL)
4:MIA 'MIDNIGHT' BOOT $53.40 (PLATFORM W/ GATHERED ELASTIC OPENING)

5: VIA SPIGA 'JONAH' COLD WEATHER BOOT $109.00 (SHINY KNEE BOOT)



HAPPY STEPPIN!

Tuxedo Black Christmas Tree

Tuxedo Black Tree, is ready for a night on the town…(Almost) always ready for a party or special event, this elegant tree is perfect for any time you want that extra touch of sophistication.

I happen to love this new idea of the black Christmas tree!!!! no its not very traditional,
but it will be in my house.
I cant wait to decorate my stylish tree.

p.s cant find and/or afford a black spruce? get a tree and some black spray paint and go to town...just remember to open a window and cover your floors!

Happy creative tree shopping!

IN- FRINGE-ME !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

OKAY....IM SOOO SICK RIGHT NOW !!!!!!! PLEASE HEAVENLY FATHER STOP THE BLEEDING
THIS MUTHAF%*$@! is sick. I cannot possible contain myself around this fabulous shoe/boot invention from the tina forever collection of Christian Louboutin, I cant even begin to imagine what I would wear with these besides.......my lil black dress! of course. With this perfect shoe/boot COMBO......I'll wear nothing, the boot/shoe says it all!

KUDOS TINA !!!!!!!!!-

Camel suede. Peep toe; hidden platform. Fringe shaft. 4 3/4" covered heel. Signature red sole.
Made in Italy.
Christian Louboutin
Fringe Cutout Boot
Price:
$1,795.00 @ http://www.neimanmarcus.com/
NMF09_X0A9X

PET THIS!!!!!!!!

OMG, I LOVE JUDITH LEIBER .......SHE IS SO CREATIVE WHEN IT COMES TIME TO HER DECADENT OVER THE TOP JEWELED PURSES, YES PEOPLE THESE ARE PURSES .....NOT PAPER WEIGHTS! (AS SEEN ON SEX AND THE CITY MOVIE, ON LILY BEFORE THE WEDDING) AND PRICEY LITTLE PURSES TOO. THANKS TO MY ONE TIME EMPLOYMENT AT BLOOMINGDALE'S AND MY EMPLOYEE CREDIT CARD AND DISCOUNT I HAVE ONE, BUT OTHER THAN THAT I WILL BE WISHING ON A STAR FOR JUST ONE MORE. (THE CUPCAKE OR THIS ADORABLE PUP....HINT) A GIRL ONLY NEEDS ONE OR TWO TO MAKE A STATEMENT!

HAPPY WISHING!

find these and all Judith Leiber products @ http://www.judithleiber.com/ or any fine department stores

Dog
Elegantly put together with its multi-colored hand glued Austrian crystals, push down snap closure, and detachable chain strap. Comes beautifully boxed with a keepsake bag. Dimensions: 7" wide, by 5.5" high, by 2" deep. 20" strap drop. Imported.JU-M31654
Ships within 1 business day (M-F 9-10)
Made in the USA
$4395.00

Cat
Fully detailed in hand glued Austrian crystals, this bag features top snap closure and detachable chain strap. Comes beautifully boxed with a keepsake bag. Dimensions: 6" wide, by 6" high, by 1" deep. 19" strap drop. Imported. JU-M31734_WHISK
Ships within 1 business day (M-F 9-10)
Made in the USA
$3695.00