Monday, January 26, 2009

WHICH ONE ARE YOU?

THIS WAS WRITTEN BY ONE OF MY GIRLFRIENDS, AND I FIND IT COMICAL BUT ALSO TRUE FOR SOME WOMEN.
SO PLEASE TAKE THIS ADVICE LADIES......SOME OF YOU ALL NEED IT, TO BE HONEST WE ALL DID AT ONCE!



1.Wifey
2.Boo
3.Bitches
4.Ho's


1)Wifey is irreplaceable.. but she is the only one that is irreplaceable.. She is the girl that the guy/girl loves and will always love, and he/she never wants to see her with another man/woman...But.. She/He will cheat on her with Boo, Bitches, and Ho's until he/she is mature enough to realize that if he/she loses Wifey he/she would be screwed, and NEVER be happy again..

2) Boo is replaceable, she thinks she's Wifey, but will NEVER be Wifey because frankly (Wifey was made Wifey) and is irreplaceable.. Boo can NEVER replace her.. Boo tries to take Wifeys spot, but once she attempts, the guy/girl allows her to get a TASTE of Wifey's spot... but Boo will NEVER achieve her spot for any longer than a few months, then the man/woman goes back to Wifey.. And Boo either gets replaced with another Boo, or, the man/woman matures and decides that Wifey is the one for him/her.. (Ladies.. you don't want to be BOO)

3) Bitches.. A female that a male/female uses only for sex or other sexually related events..the one you call when Wifey acting up and you need a quick nut. The bitch is the first one to come running.


4) Ho's.. enough said! Trying to move up in life, Wants to be a Bitch or a Boo. Hoes are just the girls you bag for no reason and have them in your phone. Backups in case a bitch or a boo slips up.Then you replace with a hoe





KUDOS TO MY D.I.Y. FOR WRITING THIS TRUTH!!!!!!!!

Sunday, January 25, 2009

SAG AWARDS......JUST SAD!!!!!!!!!!!!


America Ferrera’s 2009 Screen Actor's Guild Awards
Vera Wang beige chiffon gown, with black trim accented by a giant flower at her hip.
OK I'm soooooo sorry, because I love America Ferrera and worship Vera Wang.....but this dress is sooooo not cute.
some things in fashion are hits or miss and to me on this one she missed the bar, its not flattering at all. Maybe on someone else but I just don't see it....it's horrid. however her weight loss is exceptional and her skin looks flawless, I still love you America just not in that sag pouch...lol
HAPPY HIT OR MISS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Monday, January 19, 2009

LET US WEAR PEARLS.................





IN HONOR OF OR NEW FIRST LADY MICHELLE OBAMA, CAMP GIRLFRIEND WOULD LIKE YOU TO JOIN THEM BY WEARING PEARLS ON INAUGURAL DAY. THEY ASK THAT NO MATTER WHERE YOU ARE TO PARTICIPATE IN THIS SALUTE, IT'S SIMPLE WEAR PEARLS. LITTLE GIRLS, BIG GIRLS,TEENAGERS,GROWN WOMEN...LETS WEAR PEARLS ! CONTACT YOUR FAMILY AND GIRLFRIENDS AND ASK EACH ONE TO ASK EVERYONE, TO WEAR PEARLS ON JANUARY 20,2009, TO WORK, TO SCHOOL, THE INAUGURATION, THE BALLS, EVEN IN FRONT OF YOUR TV, GIRLS WILL BE WEARING PEARLS. WHAT A WONDERFUL KEEPSAKE FOR US ALL TO HAVE PEARLS IN RECOGNITION OF OUR NEW FIRST LADY. THANKS FOR THE SUPPORT AND PARTICIPATION, AND TELL EVERY GIRL!

FOR MORE INFORMATION CONTACT: girlswithpearls09@gmail.com

HAPPY PEARL GIRL!

THE KING'S DREAM !!!!!


Martin Luther King, Jr. (January 15, 1929 – April 4, 1968) was an African American clergyman, activist and prominent leader in the American civil rights movement. His main legacy was to secure progress on civil rights in the United States and he is frequently referenced as a human rights icon today.
A
Baptist minister, King became a civil rights activist early in his career. He led the 1955 Montgomery Bus Boycott and helped found the Southern Christian Leadership Conference in 1957, serving as its first president.
King's efforts led to the 1963 March on Washington, where King delivered his “I Have a Dream” speech. There, he raised public consciousness of the civil rights movement and established himself as one of the greatest orators in U.S. history.
In 1964, King became the youngest person to receive the
Nobel Peace Prize for his work to end racial segregation and racial discrimination through civil disobedience and other non-violent means. By the time of his death in 1968, he had refocused his efforts on ending poverty and opposing the Vietnam War, both from a religious perspective.
King was assassinated on April 4, 1968, in Memphis, Tennessee. He was posthumously awarded the Presidential Medal of Freedom in 1977 and Congressional Gold Medal in 2004; Martin Luther King, Jr. Day was established as a U.S. national holiday in 1986.
TODAY WE ALL DO NOT GET ALONG LIKE HE ENVISIONED, BUT A CHANGE HAS COME. FOR THAT, I SAY THANK YOU AND HAPPY BIRTHDAY DR. KING!
HAPPY KING DAY.........

Friday, January 16, 2009

LIVING LIFE LIKE IT'S GOLDEN..........







GOLDEN !!!!!!
FASHION DESIGNERS WORKING TERMS OF 'STATEMENTS', WHICH IS WHY THEY TEND TO HAVE A LOVE-HATE RELATIONSHIP WITH GOLD JEWELRY. FOR SEASONS A DESIGNER MIGHT DECIDE THAT MINIMALIST- WITH NO EXTRANEOUS DETAILS, NO BAUBLES, AND DEFINITELY NO GOLD- TO SUIT THEIR MAINSTREAM AESTHETIC, AND THEN SUDDENLY A SEA OF CHANGE WILL OCCUR. ONE DESIGNER MIGHT MAKE GOLD JEWELRY THE FOCUS OF THEIR CATWALK, BUT MORE OF WHAT YOU WILL NOTICE ARE THE GILT ACCENTS THAT'S SEEPING IN. THE CURRENT UBIQUITOUS- GOLDEN SANDALS AND PURSES. WHICH IS WHERE WE ARE NOW, IN 2009.
PURE GOLD, HAS BEEN ON IT'S WAY BACK FOR A FEW SEASONS, AND NOW ITS HERE, IN THE BOLD FOR SPRING "09". ENJOY BEING GOLDEN!!!!!!!
HAPPY GOLD DAYS!!!!!!!

Thursday, January 15, 2009

Femme Fatale !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!




being a girl is in style again !


























This year has uncovered my favorite pastime ...being a "girly- girl", and this spring in fashion is gonna explode with ultra chic femininity. this years spring collections are all drenched in reds, blues and florals all to say that femininity is back with a capital "F". Also I have noticed that Purple is the new Black, it has replaced black as the background in floral attire as seen above and also stands alone. It can be seen on nails (me), toes, purses and jewelry. And as it goes for class; femininity cannot be bought, its even you got it or YOU don't!!!!!!!!!!! but have fun this year just being a girl, I know it's always fun for me!
HAPPY FEMININITY!
















































































































































































































HAPPY FEMININITY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Wednesday, January 14, 2009

BUSH BE GONE !!!!!!!!!!! LOL


THE X -PRESIDENT (IN MY BOOK) HAS GAVE HIS FINAL CABINET MEETING, I DON'T KNOW ABOUT YOU ALL BUT I CHOSE TO EXERCISE MY FIRST AMENDMENT RIGHTS NOW.! I'M IN COMPLETE ECSTASY THAT THAT M*&%*A
F*+@$*R IS OUT ON HIS ASS. I MEAN REALLY WHO HAS NOT BEEN SICK OF HIM, HELL I'M SICK OF ALL BUSH.!
I' AM SO ANTI-BUSH, THEY ARE HATED NATIONWIDE AND HE HAS NERVE TO SAY, HE THINKS HIS SON WOULD BE A GOOD CANDIDATE FOR PRESIDENT.....MONKEY SEE, MONKEY DO!!!!!LOL, WELL ALL I CAN SAY TO THAT IS NOT NOW HE WONT. BUSH IS OUT EVERYONE LIFE FOR A GOOD 4YEARS (MAYBE MORE) HERE'S HOPING!
THE PRESIDENT'S LAST CABINET MEETING
The President:I want to thank an extraordinary group of American citizens who have served our country as members of my Cabinet. Everybody around this table here could have taken the easy road and stayed home and worried about their own comforts, but instead they answered the call to service. And the country is lucky to have folks like this step up and serve.
I have thanked them here at my last Cabinet meeting not only for their service, but for helping President-Elect Obama transition. And we wish the President-elect and his team all the very best. It is our genuine wish that they do well.
We also reviewed our record, and this administration has had a good, solid record. I'm very proud of it. I tell people I leave town with a great sense of accomplishment and my head held high. We reformed education and test scores for minority students are up. We reformed Medicare -- seniors have now got prescription drug coverage. We lowered taxes for everybody who pays taxes. We transformed our military to make it be able to deal more effectively with the threats of the 21st century. And the Secretary transformed the State Department so it can deal with the threats of the 21st century, as well.
We changed how we deliver aid around the world through the Millennium Challenge Account. I put good judges on the bench. Drug use for teenagers is down in America by about 25 percent. The air is cleaner, the water is purer. The armies of compassion are more invigorated than ever before. Free trade agreements have been signed.
We dealt with an economic meltdown with strong action so that our successor has a better chance of dealing with the economic fallout from the credit crisis.
Most of all, we protected this country from harm. And we did so by providing tools for our professionals, as well as asking our military to do hard work, which they have done time and time again. Concurrent with that, we promoted the freedom agenda -- 50 million people are now free in Afghanistan and Iraq because of action taken by the United States and our coalition.
But when I talk about the freedom agenda I talk about more than just freedom from tyranny. I talk about freedom from hunger, and we've had a substantial aid program to help people who are hungry; and freedom from disease. I'm very proud of the efforts out of the State Department to -- like PEPFAR, which is the AIDS initiative on the continent of Africa, as well as our Malaria Initiative.
All in all, this administration has relied upon the great compassion of the American people, the sacrifice of those who wear the uniform. And so we leave town honored to have served. I'm proud of the job that we've done.
Thank you very much.
HAPPY GOOD-BYE BUSH!!!!!!!

Tuesday, January 13, 2009

UNDER- COVER?


















It’s not entirely clear why inadequate sleep results in dark circles under the eyes, but we’ve all seen it happen either to ourselves or someone we know. For one thing, lack of sleep tends to cause the skin to become paler (thus increasing the appearance of darkness under the eyes), and it reduces circulation. It’s also believed that too little time lying down is a cause in itself. usually I get 7-9 hours per night, but it seems like Ive been having the sexcipades in my house, when my sweetie comes home....its on after 10pm in my house...okay, and between that and my cocktails. God knows I love my cocktails but alcohol can adversely affect the quality of your sleep; A lack of sleep, coupled with poor vitamin absorption also leads to darkness under the eye, So I went to the mall over the weekend and Jaromi(how you doing!) helped me find these two products by Laura Mercier, that work beautifully for when my eyes are a little dark from my nightly wifely duties, or my nites out, I use this and no one is the wiser.*(THANKS JAROMI @ SHORTHILLS MALL)


love,love.LOVE this stuff!










HAPPY MAKE UP TIP!!!

Monday, January 12, 2009

SNOWABLE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

JESSICA SIMPSON'S "Saldro"
UPPER MATERIAL: Leather TOE: Almond Toe

HEEL HEIGHT: 4.7 inch

PLATFORM HEIGHT: 1.2 inch

HEEL FINISH: Covered Heel SOCK /

LINING: Man-made OUT SOLE: Man-made












HEY ALL, SO I HAVE THESE BOOTS AND HAVE ONLY WORE THEM ONCE TO A CHILD'S BIRTHDAY PARTY, WHERE I SAT FOR THE 27MINUTES, I STAYED. (I JUST DON'T DO KIDS MUCH *SORRY) SO WHEN THE
OUTFIT /OPPORTUNITY CALLED FOR ME TO WEAR THEM AGAIN, I DID. IT'S JUST THAT MOTHER NATURE
DECIDED TO MAKE IT SNOW AND STICK (BUT IT WAS DATE NITE),SO I BRAVED IT AGAINST MY SWEETIES WILL *(SHIT I WEAR OPEN TOES IN BLIZZARDS) AND WAS SURPRISINGLY ON MY FEET ALL NIGHT. AND WE WENT A COUPLE OF PLACES WHERE I HAD TO TRACK IN THE SNOW, EVEN THOUGH MY SWEETIE ALWAYS DROPS ME AT THE FRONT DOOR FIRST ...:). HOWEVER, I SAY ALL OF THIS TO SAY I DIDN'T SLIP, LOOSE BALANCE, SLIDE, NOTHING ....I JUST PUMPED AND HAD A FABULOUS NIGHT!


P.S. I EVEN DANCED AND YALL KNOW HOW I FEEL ABOUT THAT...LOL







HAPPY NO-SLIPS

KUDOS JESS!

Sunday, January 11, 2009

JILL SCOTT A MOMMY?

R&B Singer and Actress Jill Scott Is Pregnant

Jill Scott is pregnant with her first child, the R&B singer and actress revealed to reporters at the Television Critics Association conference in Los Angeles on Friday. Promoting her new HBO series The No. 1 Ladies' Detective Agency, based on the popular novels by Alexander McCall Smith, Scott said she discovered that she was pregnant just before leaving for Botswana where she filmed the show. "The first trimester I spent in Botswana," said the star, who is due April 25. "That was one of the biggest challenges of my life. First trimester! You're sick every morning. It was seven hours time difference, the heat, the bugs, the 14 hour days." Still, the actress, who is engaged to drummer Lil' John Roberts, says she's glad she went through with the plans to film. "My doctors gave me a clean bill of health and said you can do this, so I did it." Scott, 36, is a three-time Grammy Award winner and star of the 2007 Tyler Perry film Why Did I Get Married?

Omg, anyone who knows me, knows that Jill Scott is my favorite artist, I could not be happier for her as a fan, or a woman. God Bless her and soon to be family!

KUDOS....JILL

Saturday, January 10, 2009

WHATS IN YOUR PURSE?

OKAY EVERYBODY THAT KNOWS ME, KNOWS THAT MY BAGS ARE OVERSIZED AND WEIGHS A GOOD 30 POUNDS.















IT JUST ALWAYS BEEN THAT WAY I HAVE ALWAYS HAD LIKE THIS O.C.D ABOUT NOT HAVING WHAT I NEED AT ALL TIMES, SO I'M ALWAYS READY FOR ANYTHING. SOME PEOPLE TEND TO THINK IT'S CRAZY UNTIL WE ARE OUT AT FRIDAYS AND SOMEONE NEEDS A BLOW TORCH OR BALLCOCK, THEN I'M A HERO....LOL MY SWEETIE HAS STOPPED QUESTIONING MY COMPULSIVE NEED TO OVER PACK MY PURSES,AND EVEN CARRIES THEM SOMETIMES...*SIDEBAR* (YOUR SO SWEET, I LOVE YOU!) OKAY I'M BACK, YES LADIES SO MY QUESTION IS WHATS IN YOUR BAG/BAGGAGE?













THESE ARE SOME OF THE CONTENTS OF MY BAG, SOME ITEMS LIKE MY SLIPPERS,THUMBTACKS, FOLDING PONCHO,TOILET SEAT COVERS, DOUBLE SIDED TAPE,INFLATABLE NECK TRAVEL PILLOW, AND ANTI-DIARRHEA MEDICINE, I LEFT OUT FOR LACK OF SPACE, BUT IF YOU GET A KICK OUT OF THIS....YOU SHOULD SEE MY CAR!!!!! LOL * I GUESS IT DOESN'T HELP THAT I'M SUPERSTITIOUS AND CARRY SALT WHEREVER I GO AS WELL...
















































EXERCISE 1: SPILL IT! EMPTY THE CONTENTS OF YOUR POCKETBOOK




EXERCISE 2: WRITE DOWN AND SURVEY THE CONTENTS






EXERCISE 3: ASSESS IF YOU ARE PACKING SOME THINGS CONSIDERED WEIRD






EXERCISE 4: PUT EVERYTHING BACK IN YOUR BAG THAT PEOPLE WOULDN'T CONSIDER ODD








EXERCISE 5: GO OUT, SEE IF YOU CAN LIVE WITHOUT YOUR GO-GO GADGETS AND NANCY DREW ITEMS...LOL






EXERCISE 6: IF YOU CAN LIVE WITHOUT THEM...GREAT, BUT IF NOT PUT EVERYTHING BACK AND TELL THE NEXT PERSON THAT COMMENTS ON THE SIZE OF YOUR BAG TO f@%&* OFF...LOL

HAPPY PACKING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

















































Friday, January 9, 2009

ARE YOU LONG OR SHORT?

ACCORDING TO A SURVEY CONDUCTED BY PEOPLE MAGAZINE "SHORT HAIR IS OUT AND LONG/ NATURAL HAIR IS IN" THEY ASK ONE HUNDRED PEOPLE ON THE EAST COAST WHICH THEY PREFERRED AND 73% ANSWERED LONG OR NATURAL HAIR.
































THEY SAID THAT "SHORT FUNKY CROPS WAS CUTE BUT JUST A FAD BROUGHT BACK BY THE MAUDE/TWIGGY ERA OF 2006-2008 BUT IS NOW OVER."; "LONGER, NATURAL STYLES AND SOFT ROMANTIC CURLS ARE DESIRED" SAYS STYLIST AT THE JOHN FRIEDA SALON, NEW YORK...... STYLIST TO THE STARS KEN PAVE'S AGREED BY SAYING "LONG ROMANTIC STYLES ARE BEAUTIFUL, CLASSIC AND TIMELESS".
























I HAVE DONE BOTH AND NOW AM BACK TO MY NATURAL LONG HAIR, BUT IN MY OPINION.... I LIKE THE LONG LOOK AS WELL, I JUST THINK THE SHORT HAIR WAS CUTE WHILE IT LASTED BUT NOW, NOT SO MUCH......I LIKE NATURAL SHORT STYLES THATS OKAY. BUT I CANT STAND THE GHETTO STUFF ESPECIALLY THE RAKED CURLS, THE PEACOCK DO'S AND THE QUICK WEAVES....UGH KILL ME NOW, I MEAN I DID IT AND I KNEW WHEN TO STOP...LOL . IT'S SO OVER BUT TO EACH IS OWN, WHATEVER MAKES YOU FEEL YOUR BEST!!!!
























HAPPY HAIR !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Thursday, January 8, 2009

POOR.....SJP!


Yesterday I'm in class reading my human psyche book with my Star magazine hidden inside and gagging, glancing and tearing through the pages to get to the bottom of the cover story about , Sarah Jessica Parker's husband, Matthew Broderick, was cheating on her with a younger woman. Now, I knew that from previous magazines and all the news stuff and yes...Wendy (Williams) too. but Star is exclusively reporting that our beloved hero and Sex and the City superstar has begun house hunting in New York City — solo! *(this is so part two of the movie)
OK here's what they say In the Jan. 19 issue of Star — on sale now! — we report that while Sarah thought she could make it work with her straying mate, she recently visited a midtown real estate broker to help her find her own place.
"The time has come when she realizes it just isn't worth it," a friend of the couple tells Star. "Sarah Jessica is determined to get her own place and bring down the curtain on her marriage."
Adds another insider: "Sarah's not stupid. She knows exactly what's going on. For a while it was easier for her to stay than go through a harsh divorce. They're essentially living separate lives."
Now that the holidays are over, the actress is revisiting her exit strategy, which takes into careful consideration the couple's 6-year-old son, James Wilkie — just about the only thing holding the pair together.
"They spent the holidays with him, pretending to be happy," says another source. "SJP is a great actress when she has to be!"
Pick up the new Star today for all the juicy details, including Sarah's meeting with a real estate broker, the couple's plan for breaking the news to their son and the reason why the couple grew apart. Plus: Matt's secret date with a fashion scion.
OMG.......omg, this is sooo sad, I just hope that in real life she has girlfriends that have her back like in the series/movie...because right now I know that she can use Charlotte,Samantha and Miranda for support and cocktails. Even when your in the right, its still hard to leave and be alone after years of being use to someone, even after the romance/love goes that's still your best friend....right!! IDK what the hell I would do but.... I know it would involve a sick pair of pumps, a bottle of Jack Daniels, my visa card, my stash of cash (bail money), a hairpin, nail file, some matches and a camera/ camera phone.
OKAY, you draw it up....lol
HAPPY MOVE SJP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Wednesday, January 7, 2009

HATING ON THE FIRST LADY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


In more details of Ann Coulter's controversial next book, Guilty: Liberal "Victims" and Their Assault on America are out revealing how Coulter slams Michelle Obama for her style while applauding that of Cindy McCain.
The Daily News reports:
Coulter wrote, "Her obvious imitation of Jackie O's style - the flipped-under hair, the sleeveless A-line dresses, the short strands of fake pearls - would have been laughable if done by anyone other than a media-designated saint."
Coulter said Cindy McCain, the wife of vanquished GOP nominee John McCain, "dressed well without freakishly imitating famous First Ladies in history."
Coulter facetiously and snidely refers to Michelle Obama as a "saint" and "Mother Teresa" and suggests that her public service career "advanced in lockstep with the political advancement of her husband."


OK so don't get me wrong, I'm so up to date on the whole freedom of speech in the United States is protected by the First Amendment to the United States Constitution and by many state constitutions and state and federal laws. Sure but what idiot would exercise that right in a book, targeted at the African American first lady, just in terms of laughing (insert stereotype) yall know that you cannot talk about a sisters weave and live to tell about it with, well not your hair....lol. Seriously what is this chicks beef with this beautiful, fashionable, highly qualified soon to be first lady?. FOR SHAME! I think she's jealous and just hating. However, I happen to like Michelle Obama. Although, I do not agree with all her fashion choices, I stand by her conservative,first lady,mother of two look, and understand her need to look appropriate at all times. But I see Michelle can get funky with it and her shoes are fab too, I cant wait to see who and what she is wearing to the upcoming inauguration ball.



KUDOS MICHELLE OBAMA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!









Tuesday, January 6, 2009

WHO IS SASHA FIERCE ?




Leave it to Bey=Beyonce ( A friend in my head) to do something that women have been doing for decades, and make headline news with it....I have reinvented myself so many times that my alter ego's have alter ego's ..lol. Shit at this point, I may just have a multiple personality disorder.But when Mrs.Knowles-Carter cracks a damn nut the world applauds, but I have to give her credit for the over the top drag queen name with flair.She has certainly answered my many questions about her makeup,hair and outfit choices, there was definitely a queen involved and I don't mean ARETHA,MARY, OR ELIZABETH OK, she has a pump in her step, an "diva" attitude and over confidence that only a gay man can provide. I know for a fact that gay men are a necessity that every women needs in her entourage, I just have more than a couple.......Hey Boys *How you doing* (and yes my perfectly glossed lips are poked out) in true fag fashion (pardon the politically incorrect name but sometimes that's the only word that will do, ya know) so I close in saying kudos to B, on the new album and to having fabulous friends!



Mrs.Beyonce knowles-Carter says in an interview:

"I have someone else that takes over when it's time for me to work and when I'm on stage, this alter ego that I've created that kind of protects me and who I really am," "Sasha Fierce is the fun, more sensual, more aggressive, more outspoken side and more glamorous side that comes out when I'm working and when I'm on the stage."

Additionally, she has set up a cryptic MySpace page (http://www.myspace.com/sashafierce) that gives a "lucky person" the opportunity to receive a personal message and a gift bag valued at $500
HAPPY ALTERING-EGO'S !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Monday, January 5, 2009

BURN-OUT BLUES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!











Almost anyone who has held a job or commitment that requires your full attention, knows the twinge of dread on Sunday evenings as YOU RECOVER FROM YOUR DINNER DATE OR HANGOVER to the countdown to the workweek nears its final hours. Friday afternoon becomes the light at the end of a dark, five-day tunnel reserved for letting loose and being free. For me, this is a momentary feeling that comes along when work/school is particularly stressful or when it's been too long since a much deserved vacation. Unfortunately, that feeling doesn't disappear. If you can relate, then you might be burned out on your job too.




Most people will experience temporary periods of burnout or imbalance,Long periods of imbalance can be dangerous to your health, destructive to your relationships and can endanger your job.

How do you know when you've crossed from a rough patch into a burnout? Burnout creeps up and you don't know until you're in the midst of it, and it does not happen overnight. It happens in tiny little episodes slowly. This is why it is difficult to read any given instance for what it is, let alone judge where you are in the process of becoming burned out."If you're not sure whether you're just having a bad day or are experiencing something worse, here are some signs that you're burning out,


Your professional relationships don't matter anymore.


If the breakroom chats and hallway conversations with your colleagues went from fun diversions to nonexistent, your heart is obviously not in the job anymore.


The quality of your work isn't what it used to be.When you're disillusioned with your job, you're not going to perform to your best abilities.




Maybe you don't notice the drop in quality or maybe you do notice but just don't care.
You're no longer goal-oriented.When your motivation is getting to the end of the day instead of getting that new job title, somethings not right.Recognizing that you're burned out is a good first step, but it won't mean much unless you take action to change the situation. Talk about it, both to yourself and to other people, When you share your newfound realization with the important people in your life, you make a strong commitment to doing something about it.




Here are some other ways to beat burnout:


Spice up your routine.


Figure out what new responsibility you are capable and willing to assume and ask that it be given to you.


"You may have to apologize and/or show a rejuvenated effort at work in order to get what you are asking for,"


"but do it because new variety and stimulation is vital to overcome burnout.


"Rediscover your motivation."Goals work.


Be specific and set deadlines," I recommend that you analyze each goal and figure out what skills you will gain, what new experiences you will have and whom you might meet.


"Make the goals at least modestly challenging, and feel free to share them with others to increase your commitment," Have a plan.Create a list of skills you need to obtain, people you need to network with, financial items to take care of, and overall steps you need to take to get into a job or business that you are passionate about.




How Do I Know if It's the Right Time to Leave a Job? Sometimes you need to remove yourself from the situation (this works in relationships too) if you want to make any progress. If you done f*%$ up majorly and your boss has written you off entirely then you may need to find a new approach. If you don't have the resources to improve your skills or you were never a fit for the job, there's no way to work from within the system. For example, if you're an accountant whose passion has always been photography and not numbers, you can't make yourself love your current job. So don't be afraid to make the jump to a better career. NEW YEAR,NEW CAREER!!!!!!!!








HAPPY UN-BURNING!!!!!!!

Sunday, January 4, 2009

DONT WAIT,TO LOSE THE WEIGHT!!!


JUMP START YOUR WEIGHT LOSS WITH THESE PRODUCTS!!!!!






















NOW THAT THE NEW YEAR IS IN FULL SPIN, IT'S TIME TO START THOSE WEIGHT LOSS RESOLUTIONS OFF TO BE AT YOUR GOAL BY YOUR SET DATE. THESE PRODUCTS ARE MY FAVORITE WEIGHT LOSS SOLUTIONS, OF COURSE WITHOUT EXERCISE, PATIENCE AND EATING HEALTHY THESE PRODUCTS WONT SHOW LASTING RESULTS, AND STARVING YOURSELF ONLY HURTS YOU IN THE LONG RUN. THE PRODUCTS ABOVE CAN BE FOUND IN ALL PHARMACY, I FIND MINE AT WALGREEN'S STORES OR ONLINE @WWW.WALGREENS.COM





1. SLIMQUICK GENTLE CLEANSE
2. SPECIAL K 2.0.DIET PROTEIN WATER
3.NUTRA-TRIM APPETITE SUPPRESSANT GUM
4.SLIMFAST COOKIE DOUGH BARS
5.SLIM SHOTS APPETITE CONTROL SHOTS
6.DEXITRIM MAX CALORIE BURNER TABLETS
7.EVOLVE AT HOME BODY TRIMMING WRAP SET
8. ALLI WEIGHT LOSS SYSTEM





HAPPY WEIGHT LOSS !!!!!!!!!!!!!