OK, HOW MANY WOMEN (IN YOUR LIFETIME) HAS BEEN THROUGH THE BLOW JOB TUG OF WAR BEFORE?
GIVING IT GIVES POWER, BUT MORE OFTEN TAKES IT AWAY ESPECIALLY WHEN THEY DON'T CALL AFTERWARDS. DISCUSS IT WITH YOURSELF, IF YOU WANNA GO THERE FIND OUT WHAT DOING IT MEANS TO THEM (IF ITS A MARRIAGE DEAL BREAKER OR JUST ASEXUAL ACT) AND FOR FU*K SAKE DON'T DRINK AND BLOW! AND IF YOU JUST WANNA HAVE FUN THEN HERE'S SOME POINTERS ON HOW TO FROM A FRIEND OF MINES * THANKS MISSEY*
Blow jobs should always be fun for both the giver and receiver. Use your hand at the base of the penis if it's just too much to take into your mouth, never use teeth unless your partner specifically says, "Sure, scrape it and see me BLEED", You can choose to use a lot of tongue around the shaft or quick and fast sucking up and down the shaft, or a combination of the two seems to put men in a coma, it's really quite the compliment. Another good thing to remember is to use your other hand to massage the balls lightly, at a light pressure so that he still has a sperm count of some kind the next day. Unless he likes it, don't suck right on the head, that's the most sensitive part and he'll be talking like a girl if you sit there and attack that thing like it's basking robbins or something. A blow job is what you make of it, make it fun for you, if you like your partner to say things to you while you give, then ask and ye shall receive. Ask them if you can swallow or not, or where to aim the come when he does, to avoid messes, always get their input, cause it all starts with the mouth, but every guy likes something a little different! Oh yes, don't expect the first one to garner you a medal or something. It really does take practice to attain full stamina and the ability to keep your jaw like that for so long, and you may need to train your gag reflex, but that will come later. LOL - just enjoy yourself, the first time may be "ew" but if you can find ways for you yourself to enjoy it, too, then it will be fun.
Hand jobs - use a lubricant if they are circumcised, and for uncircumcised use the foreskin to your advantage, take it and hold it and use that to move up and down the shaft. Happy Little Old People Note: to all you young'ns gettin' in on the fun please get tested for HIV/AIDS after sexual contact I don't care if you're madly in love with him/her or whatnot you never know. Missey.
