Wednesday, February 24, 2010

FORGIVE ME?


OKAY PEOPLE , I'M BACK WITH YET ANOTHER CONTROVERSIAL TOPIC, (SEE I TOLD Y'ALL I CAN COMPREHEND THINGS OTHER THAN FASHION) 2ND CHANCES / SECOND CHANCES......NOW I'M ALL FOR FORGIVING, IF I FEEL AS IF YOU DESERVE IT. BUT I DON'T KNOW ABOUT THIS SECOND CHANCE NOTION. I CANNOT GRASP THE PAIN OF YOU BREAKING MY HEART, THEN HAVING YOU HOLD THE SHATTERED, TAPED UP, PIECES ONCE AGAIN? AND IT DOESN'T MATTER IF IT WAS A FIRST LOVE, BOYFRIEND, GIRLFRIEND, BEST FRIEND OR FAMILY MEMBERS..... ITS ALL THE SAME. PAIN IS PAIN - FORGIVENESS IS FORGIVENESS. AND WITH THAT BEING SAID TRUST IS TRUST AND HOW CAN YOU TRULY FORGIVE SOMEONE BUT NEVER TRUST THEN AGAIN? IS THAT POSSIBLE? (NOW THE FORGIVENESS I GIVE TO YOU IN MY HEART, SO I MAY GO ON WITH MY LIFE & HEALING) IS TOTALLY DIFFERENT, THAT COMES REGARDLESS OF OUR STATUS BUT WHAT DO YOU ALL THINK? I'M NOT JUDGEMENTAL JUST GROUNDED ON MY BELIEFS AND WHAT WORKS FOR ME.
*CAN YOU FORGIVE WITHOUT GIVING ALL OF YOU? IN 2010 HAVE YOU FORGAVE? WILL YOU?