FORGIVE ME?

OKAY PEOPLE , I'M BACK WITH YET ANOTHER CONTROVERSIAL TOPIC, (SEE I TOLD Y'ALL I CAN COMPREHEND THINGS OTHER THAN FASHION) 2ND CHANCES / SECOND CHANCES......NOW I'M ALL FOR FORGIVING, IF I FEEL AS IF YOU DESERVE IT. BUT I DON'T KNOW ABOUT THIS SECOND CHANCE NOTION. I CANNOT GRASP THE PAIN OF YOU BREAKING MY HEART, THEN HAVING YOU HOLD THE SHATTERED, TAPED UP, PIECES ONCE AGAIN? AND IT DOESN'T MATTER IF IT WAS A FIRST LOVE, BOYFRIEND, GIRLFRIEND, BEST FRIEND OR FAMILY MEMBERS..... ITS ALL THE SAME. PAIN IS PAIN - FORGIVENESS IS FORGIVENESS. AND WITH THAT BEING SAID TRUST IS TRUST AND HOW CAN YOU TRULY FORGIVE SOMEONE BUT NEVER TRUST THEN AGAIN? IS THAT POSSIBLE? (NOW THE FORGIVENESS I GIVE TO YOU IN MY HEART, SO I MAY GO ON WITH MY LIFE & HEALING) IS TOTALLY DIFFERENT, THAT COMES REGARDLESS OF OUR STATUS BUT WHAT DO YOU ALL THINK? I'M NOT JUDGEMENTAL JUST GROUNDED ON MY BELIEFS AND WHAT WORKS FOR ME.

*CAN YOU FORGIVE WITHOUT GIVING ALL OF YOU? IN 2010 HAVE YOU FORGAVE? WILL YOU?

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Okay yall, It’s common knowledge that during sex, things may not always go as planned. We’ve all had moments that have either made us cringe or bust out in laughter. Be prepared when sexual mishaps occur; read up on five common Ooops moments and how to recover from them.

Ooops #1: You let one out as you climax. How to react: If you’re riding your stud, almost to completion, and you let out flatulence, there is something you can do that doesn’t include you hoping the bed would swallow you whole. If it happens once, don’t act like it didn’t happen. Apologize and, if possible, crack a joke about how you didn’t think proper gas etiquette was extended to the bedroom. If your partner is a decent person, you both can easily laugh it off; flatulence is a normal bodily function, after all. For some, however, it can be a frequent occurrence due to medical conditions that cause excessive gas. Keep in mind that flatulence is also very common during anal sex: once your partner pulls out, air needs to be expelled. So be prepared with some music playing and a few scented candles nearby. lol!!!!

Ooops #2: You hurt him. How to react: Things can get rough in the bedroom, so hard slaps, nail marks, bite marks and hair pulling can be common and the way I like it but I digress; However, if you accidentally elbow your partner in the gut, mouth or the eye, that’ll hurt a lot more, especially since it came unexpectedly. Admittedly, there’s nothing you can do to cover up, save for telling them you were so enthralled by them and their performance that you had no control over your body. I suggest you apologize profusely, have a good laugh over it—c’mon, it’s pretty funny...shit!!! and once your mortification subsides - then suggestively offer to help with the healing.

Ooops#3: You don’t orgasm. How to react: To fake or not to fake? That is the eternal question, right. It seems that some partners are none the wiser a good portion of the time, while some can be perceptive and get hurt. However, faking will be of little benefit to you, as your partner will not know and continue to “please” you the best they knows how. Instead of masking your non-existent orgasm, just teach them the surefire way to get you revved-up. And if you yourself don’t know, it’s time you did a little self-discovery....so explore!!!

Ooops#4: You call out another guy’s/gals name. How to react: This is a trickier one. You certainly wouldn’t like it if a partner called out another name during sex! But if you let a name other than theirs slip out of your mouth while in ecstasy, think fast: if you accidentally called out “Brad”, for example, you can tell him that you meant Brad Pitt. It’ll be less of an issue if it’s a celebrity, and you can playfully suggest that he can call you “Angelina” next time. However, if Brad is the name of your ex-boyfriend, well, your up shits creek and that may take a bit longer to fix, I suggest Loud Music!!!!!!

Ooops#5: You spit rather than swallow. How to react: Every woman falls into either the spit or swallow camps, and either one is fine. Just be sure, however, to tell your partner which side you’re on beforehand. There’s nothing worse for a guy/ girl than seeing the look of distaste on your face as you try to let it go down or, worse, spitting it out in disgust. If you’re a spitter, have a tissue or cup nearby; or just request your guy/girl not ejaculate/cum in your mouth. Communicating your preference from the get-go will minimize embarrassment and slaps across the face situations later on.

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Pillow Princess ;
A person, usually in a of a homosexual/bisexual context, who wants to experience pleasure from oral sex, but who is unwilling to reciprocate.

This is not a good sexual behavior practice, for anyone. Although in some relationships this is forced upon the other partner. I don't understand that act in some modern relationships, That is an act, I'm sure not to follow. And those king of situations how does the other partner get pleasure ? Well to me I think its down right selfish and if I might add rude...its like being invited to a party and arriving empty handed, just bad manners. At times like this different position's should be tried, One that pops into mind is the 69 position (Sixty-nine or 69, also known by its French name soixante-neuf (sixty-nine), is a group of sex positions in which two people align themselves so that each person's mouth is near the other's genitals, simultaneously performing oral sex. The participants are thus mutually inverted like the numerals 6 and 9, hence the name. This position can involve any combination of sexes) This position done right can be pleasurable for both partners...So I advise to go home, stretch, get limber in a hot bath, message one another in oils and slowly work yourself into the position then BON APPETITE'

HAPPY EATING!!!!

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The battle of the sexes heats up in Columbia Pictures' comedy 'The Ugly Truth.' Abby Richter (Katherine Heigl) is a romantically challenged morning show producer whose search for Mr. Perfect has left her hopelessly single. She's in for a rude awakening when her bosses team her with Mike Chadway (Gerard Butler), a hardcore TV personality who promises to spill the ugly truth on what makes men and women tick.

OKAY SO I WENT AND SEEN THIS MOVIE OVER THE WEEKEND AND NOT ONLY WAS IT GOOD...IT WAS EYE OPENING!!!! AS TO HOW WOMEN THINK WITH THE HEART AND HEAD WHEN MEN AND WOMEN WHO THINK LIKE MEN DO NOT. FOR THE WOMAN EVERYTHING IS A EMOTION FELT DEEPLY, AS WELL AS CAREFULLY THOUGHT OUT. BUT FOR OUR COMPANIONS, IT'S JUST NOT THAT COMPLICATED...THEY ARE REALLY SIMPLE (FOR LACK OF A BETTER WORD) IN THINKING. NO REGRETS,NO EMOTION, JUST LOINS & TESTOSTERONE WITH HIDDEN MORALS OF THEIR NAGGING MOTHERS. SO NOW, I SEE HOW MANY OF MY PROBLEMS IN MY OWN MARRIAGE OCCUR, I SIMPLY DON'T KNOW WHEN TO "SHUT THE FUCK UP" I'M JUST AS NAGGING AS THE MOTHER THEY GOT AWAY FROM...AND LADIES NO ONE WANTS TO FUCK "MEAN MOMMY" (MIRANDA OF SATC)

SO I TRIED SOMETHING NEW AND TO MY SURPRISE IT WORKED & I'M LESS STRESSED OUT, SO HERE IT IS;

1: LET THEM MAKE THEIR OWN MISTAKES (ie: NO NAPKIN WHILE EATING RIBS) *IT WAS HARD!!

2: NO COMMENTS OR EYE ROLLING WHEN THEY FORGETS THINGS (ie: CELL PHONE)

3: LET THEM MAKE CHOICES (STROKE THEIR EGO) EVEN WHEN YOU KNOW THE OUTCOME (ie: I WANT A EXTRA FIRM MATTRESS...OUCH THIS IS TOO HARD)

4:ENJOY THEIR PROGRESS AND WORK ON YOU BECOMING LESS NAGGING (ie: NO DO THIS, NO NOT LIKE THAT STUPID) VERY BAD!!!

5: LOVE UNCONDITIONALLY MEANS FLAWS & ALL , AND FOR THAT YOUR HEART SHOULD SMILE (ie: YOU ARE NOT THE EASIEST TO GET ALONG WITH EITHER...ESPECIALLY IN THE MORNING!)

SO GO OUT AND WATCH THE MOVIE (PREFERABLY BY YOURSELF OR WITH GIRLFRIENDS) AND COME HOME AND LOVE YOUR MATE THE WAY YOUR SUPPOSE TO!!!

HAPPY "UGLY TRUTHS"!!!!

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Hello Ladies,

There has been a looming problem coming between women's friendships everywhere!!!!

I don't know if its all the break ups that's been going on, or the recession, or maybe just depression over the way the world is going. Idk but women are becoming Very Needy!!!!

I mean its like you have two romantic relationships and frankly...its a bit much!

The constant calling and if you don't answer the frantic texting of: where are you? why you not answering? can I come over? come over here? wanna go to the park? can I spend the night? why are you avoiding me? I'm outside!!!

classic stalker behaviour!!!

I mean GODDAMN am I f%cking you!, and in my case I'm married and that doesn't stop it, Oh yes, Ive been through this many times...I was told the flock & cling to me because I'm so strong in my life. Well i didn't sign up for that, so I nip it in the bud!

It's sad but there are some friends who feel like an emotional ball and chain. They’re always in need of one thing or another: money, favors, help, coddling, praise---or simply more time than you have to give. Like a wailing toddler, they can be so demanding that their friendship tires you and weighs you down. Who needs that kind of friend? Many women do.

*People who like feeling needed---or once liked the feeling (even if they don’t anymore)
*People who feel like they aren’t worthy of healthier, more balanced relationships
*People who are stuck---either feeling angry or sorry for their needy friend---and feel unable to get out of it But if you have begun to recognize that a female friendship is a drag, you’ve taken the first step in relieving yourself of the burden.

*HOW-TO UNLOAD:
*Change the nature of your friendship by learning to say “no” and setting boundaries (e.g. “Even though we are both single, I don’t want to spend every Friday night together.”)

*Tell her that you have to tend to your own needs (or those of anyone else you can think of)

*Slip away - Spend less time with her and add other less demanding friends to your inventory

**Take a relationship sabbatical or hiatus from the friendship (you deserve it!)
If it's that bad, simply cut loose!

Remember, the term toxic friendships refers to relationships that are consistently negative and draining. It is the pattern, not the one-time or occasional lapses in the balance of needing that occurs between good friends. If your truly needy friend has been that way for some time, the real possibilities of changing the relationship verge on hopeless. These are people whose needs can never be satiated. No matter what you give, what you do, how much, or how often, it will never be enough. Since character tends to endure, this person probably treats other people the same way she treats you. It’s likely that many of her friends have probably already dropped out of the picture and that’s why she is so dependent on you! Be stern and remember this is your friendship too, so you should be happy as well.

Choa!

ANOTHER GUILTY PLEASURE!!!

What if the perfect guy for you is somewhere else?

In every episode of SOAPnet's new original reality series, "Holidate," two new women from different areas of the country venture out of their comfort zones and into a new part of the country to holidate in a city completely unlike where they currently live. Once they switch cities, each woman explores her new surroundings and embarks on a series of 3 dates hand-selected by the other woman. While each of our women have dated many men in their own hometowns, imagine what could happen once they leave their old lives behind to become immersed in the sexiness of Santa Fe, the mystery of Miami, or the non-stop nightlife in New York, all to look for Mr. Right. In the end, each woman will have the opportunity to meet up again with one of the guys she has met on her holidate and invite him to fly out and visit her in her hometown.

In the first episode, Christian Cloud, a 34-year-old model from the Los Angeles beach community of Venice, will swap places with Tai Beauchamp, a 31-year-old social entrepreneur from New York. While in the Big Apple, Christian will date three separate men, including an owner of a successful hedge fund company and a profitable real estate broker, in and around different locales in the “City that Never Sleeps.” Will one of these guys be her Mr. Right? Meanwhile on the West coast, Tai looks for the perfect man – all who work in the entertainment industry – as each date takes her to a wide variety of settings in the City of Angels including the famed southern California beach, a private yacht sunset cruise and one of Hollywood’s hottest nightspots. Will Tai invite one of her dates back to the East coast?

"Holidate" premieres July 29th at 10PM/9c, on SOAPnet!

Watch it ...im excited!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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When Your Partner Cheats: Healing From Infidelity or Not!

Few events cause as much turmoil in a marriage as infidelity, which can reduce a marriage to rubble, shattering trust and creating a breeding ground for insecurity, mistrust and resentment.
Reliable statistics on the frequency of marital infidelity are hard to come by because affairs can't be objectively measured like divorce and marriage. Furthermore, researchers say there is only a few people that admit this act has happened to them.

One often-cited expert, Peggy Vaughan, author of The Monogamy Myth,(One of my healing books) estimates that 60 percent of husbands/spouses and 40 percent of wives will have an affair at some point in their marriage; however, less than 10 percent of people who have affairs divorce and marry their lovers.

Infidelity Is Not a Death Sentence, As painful and devastating as infidelity is, I think it is a wound that can be healed — slowly and maybe with an ass whooping. Couples who are coping with an affair: Infidelity is a sometimes treatable crisis. Sound like a monumental task? It is, It takes strength to trust the betrayed and betrayer can heal from infidelity just as slow as the relationship started, but because of my past relationship (with a chronic flirt and "alleged" cheat that never admitted cheating) I don't advocate staying together. I think it matters on how it was done, Was I disrespected in their act? Where the act took place?, How many times has the act occurred?, and Can I trust that this act wont happen again?....However, People are different and in my current marriage, I would probably give it another go based on those questions and could I live with the fact that, I took her back; No matter how bleak and dark things are at that moment I know it would be different. virtually marriages can be brought back form the brink of splitting up, with cooperation from both parties. First and foremost, there is no "quick fix" to repair the damage caused by unfaithfulness. The process takes time — often years — and you need a great deal of patience to handle the disappointment and disillusionment along the way. "Be prepared for many 'back to square ones,'"and setbacks will diminish over time.

What the Unfaithful Party Needs to Do:
Be brutally honest about the affair. The unfaithful has to be able to talk about the affair as often and in as much depth and detail as the partner desires. We as Women in particular, need to know why it happened. We feel that unless we uncover the root (cause of the affair), it could happen again. The truth also facilitates healing by short-circuiting the imagination. What the betrayed imagines took place is usually much worse than what actually imagined and at times visa verse. If talking about the affair is intensely uncomfortable, you may want to work with a family therapist or marriage counselor to get past initial minefields but definitely not family from either sides because they will always be for their family at the end of the day, and be prepared for a change in your mates behavior they may not be able to go back to the way things were that easily.

What the Couple Needs to Do:
Talk things out about the future needs and wants, be patient with each other as you both heal, and be prepared that getting back together may not be the best plan for your individual futures.

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ANAL SEX!!!!!!

Tip #1: Play Safe
There are some serious safety issues regarding anal sex that you need to be aware of at all times. First and foremost, whatever touches the anus shouldn't be touching anything else. Never never never take the penis out of the anus and put it into the vagina. That can lead to serious infections and other complications. After any kind of anal play, you should immediately change condoms and wash the relevant body parts thoroughly.
Of course, STDs are also a major concern with anal sex. This isn't just limited to AIDS; herpes, genital warts, syphilis, gonorrhea, etc. can all be transmitted through anal sex. You shouldn't be having anal sex without a condom; it's not worth the risk to either partner.

Tip #2: Lube, lube, lube
One of the most important thing to remember when thinking about anal sex is that, unlike the vagina, the anus isn't self-lubricating: you gotta bring your own grease. And, the more lube you use, the better. It will make the initial penetration much more easy and less painful for the woman and make the whole experience, for both of you, much more pleasant. The most common suggestion we get from our readers is to use LOTS of lube; we just can't emphasize this point enough.
All kinds of lube are used for anal sex, from spit to Vaseline to high-tech silicone-based lubes. We'd strongly recommend spending a little money to get a high quality water-based lubricant; remember, an oil-based lubricant like Vaseline will degrade the latex in a condom, destroying its usefulness. We'd recommend products like *AstroGlide or KY Jelly, available in any drug store. Note, though a condom may be "lubricated", they typically don't offer as much lube as we'd recommend for anal sex.
Sex Toys
There are some specialty lubes designed for anal sex that include an anesthetic to numb the woman's sensation and make anal sex less painful. We'd advise against these products. The simple fact is, pain is a way of your body telling you that something's wrong. If you're in pain during anal sex, you need to focus on solving the root problems, not anesthetizing yourself so it's easier to endure.

Tip #3: Start Small
Simply put, a penis is an awful big to be the first thing you stick up someone's butt . Better to start with something smaller and work your way up. Fingers are an excellent beginning point. Use one finger, then two, to initiate your partner into the mysteries of anal penetration. Try it while performing oral sex for an extra thrill. Be sure your fingernails are trimmed, not to forget the lube, and you might even want to wear latex gloves.
As your partner gets used to your fingers, you might graduate to a butt plug or a small dildo. Dildos are available in all shapes and sizes. Go shopping together to get one she thinks she can handle. Remember, though, don't put the dildo into the vagina after putting it into the anus. The safest way is to put a condom on the dildo before using it, and to wash it thoroughly immediately after.

Tip #4: Turnabout is Fair Play
Whether you're trying to convince someone to have anal sex or trying to figure out how to do it in a gentle, pain free manner, there's no better preparation that exploring anal play with yourself.
A partner is much more likely to consent to anal sex if she's seen that you're open to being on the receiving end as well. Encourage her to use her fingers inside of you, or even purchase a butt plug or small dildo and let her use that. Once she's seen you're willing to do it, it'll be hard for her to resist exploring it as well.
Of course, anal play on yourself is a great way to learn how anal sex feels and to learn how to make it more comfortable for your partner. You might also be surprised just how much you like it...

Tip #5: Clear the Way
Before having anal sex, the woman should have a good, complete bowel movement. If she doesn't, the man may find himself encountering far more fecal matter than he might have liked (i.e. packing the fudge). Now, for some people doing this on-command might not be the easiest thing, and straining to defecate is not healthy. A high fiber diet may help things along and is good for your health in any case.
Of course, if you really want to clean things out in a hurry, you can purchase an enema from any drug store. There's some controversy about this; some people feel having an enema first can actually increase the irritation during anal sex. If you're going to go the enema route, we'd recommend doing it several hours before you plan to have anal sex, rather than right before the act.

HAPPY ANAL EASE!!!!!!!

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THE READY-MADE FAMILY........

OK SO BY NOW YOU ALL KNOW MY MOUTH AND HOW I STATE MY OPINIONS ON HERE.

I SIMPLY SAY NO! NO! NO!, I WOULD NEVER, EVER, NOT FOR THE "ME FIRST" FACTOR THAT PLAYS A BIG PART IN IT. ITS JUST A STICKY SITUATION TO BE INVOLVED WITH, PEOPLE ARE FUNNY ABOUT THERE KIDS AND HOW THEY WANT THEM TO BE CHASTISED. SEE I DON'T LIKE CHILDREN (EXCEPT MY FRIENDS OR FAMILIES) BUT EVEN THEN CLOSE ENOUGH IS TOO CLOSE.....I KNOW THAT SOUNDS SHADY BUT PEOPLE THAT HAVE CHILDREN EXPECT FOR THOSE OF US THAT ARE CHILDLESS & FABULOUS TO BE AS PATIENT AND UNDERSTANDING AS THEY ARE ....AND NO THAT DOESN'T WORK FOR ME!

MY OWN CHILDREN =YES.......... MATES CHILDREN = NO.

SOME PEOPLE ARE SO STARVED FOR ANY KIND OF FEELING OF BELONGING THAT THEY JUMP RIGHT IN EYES WIDE SHUT, AND END UP BEING WITH THE KIDS MORE THEN THERE PARENT.

SOUNDS LIKE A SET UP ....DON'T FALL IN!!!!!! THAT'S JUST MY OPINION....

["IT'S ONLY ENTERTAINMENT" JAY-Z]

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How to meet and marry a billionaire
Money magazine's field guide to the mating habits of the ultra rich

Looking to marry a billionaire? Jean Chatzky tells TODAY host Meredith Vieira tips on how to date and get hitched to a big spender.

"Are you looking to fall for someone tall, dark — but most importantly — Very wealthy?
Marlys Harris, Money Magazine Senior Editor, explains what it takes to snag your very own Richie Rich:
Work hard, take risks, maybe build your own business. That's the traditional route to financial success. Of course, there's another highly traditional path to acquiring wealth that isn't talked about quite as much these days: Marry money. "

But okay......Real money. As in not a mere millionaire (a dime a dozen these days) but an honest-to-goodness billionaire - make that 10 figures after the dollar sign, PLEASE. True, it's not politically correct to go hunting for a marital meal ticket, But just for a moment imagine the life that could be yours if you did. Forget the fabulous baubles, designer clothing, and SHOES, cutting-edge electronics and palatial mansions that your golden goose - uhm I meant, Spouse - might heap upon you. Consider the more pragmatic bonuses of the good life. No more scrimping and scraping to make your annual Roth IRA contribution. No more working until you drop to ensure a comfortable retirement and get fired before you even get it. And no more worries about where your children will get into college (or how to pay for it). A seven-figure donation from your beloved to the school of your choice and your kids are in the door, even if they're no smarter than dry grapefruit. I'm Sold? Of course you are..... But how realistic is it for you, an ordinary wage slave with no more ties to the jet set than a business trip to Atlantic City last month, to even meet, much less marry, a billionaire? Well ladies I choose my choice, and with the options we have now out there its slim pickings, so pick well and just decide if you want The Prince and his White Horse or The Women's Liberation ("WE CAN DO IT") life.







HAPPY PICKING!!!!

JON CAN'T WAIT TO LEAVE KATE?

Jon and Kate Gosselin announce divorce!!!!!

Rumours have it that Jon and Kate Plus 8 stars Jon and Kate Gosselin have hired divorce lawyers. If so, theirs will be America's first reality divorce to go down while the show a show is airing. No doubt the saga will continue generating the TLC channel's biggest ratings ever. But as the producers' profits continue to roll in as this train wreck of a marriage breaks down, what's at stake for Jon and Kate?or the kids for that matter?

Already accused by family members of "exploiting their kids" for fame and fortune, the money is really going to the hit fan if they head to divorce court.

Previous reality TV couples like Nick and Jessica(my fav fav), Britney and Kevin Federline (my fav), and Hulk Hogan and Linda all had marriages that hit the skids after their shows left the airwaves. But Jon and Kate are famous for raising eight little ones while showcasing their deteriorating marriage on camera. The feuding couple has been raking in real dough from sponsors, gifts, perks and fees and expects to earn much more as their popularity continues to soar.

So the question arises, if the couple splits, how do they split their future earnings in real time?

A family member claims the Gosselins are worth $10 million. Even if the true figure is a quarter of that, figuring out how to slice this family pie without the couple tearing each other to pieces will not be easy. The couple's TV contract reportedly pays out $75,000 an episode. As current cash cows for TLC , Jon and Kate should certainly expect their paychecks to inflate as additional seasons advance. Plus there's bound to be income from additional book deals, TV contracts, and paid endorsements down the road. Shit, I'm in the wrong business!!!! It's going to take a team of contract and divorce lawyers to divide the marital assets as the family jackpot and fame grows by the minute. This is the type of settlement deal that could take months if not years and maybe another batch of babies...lol, to hammer out.
Then comes alimony. Could Kate owe Jon a monthly maintenance check? After all, Jon played housewife while Kate was the bigger breadwinner. Her $20,000 speaking engagements, plus income from her book and autograph sales, make her the wealthier spouse. If a judge wants to make sure that income and assets are divided evenly, there may be a court-ordered role reversal. Jon could end up a kept man as he cashes Kate's alimony checks.
Another cost of a reality divorce is astronomical legal fees. Litigation would put a serious dent in the couple's paychecks. The more complicated the marital assets, the wealthier the spouses, and the more ferocious their fight, the bigger the legal bills. These feuding TV stars are a lawyer's dream clients -- virtually guaranteed to wage an expensive divorce battle as the attorneys and forensic accountants sort through the marital assets and hatch a workable plan where both sides would be willing to sign off. If you ask me, The Gosselins would actually stay richer if they stayed together. But with their hatred bared before the cameras and their legal maneuverings behind-the-scenes, it seems like it's too late to save Jon and Kate.

But on the other hand what about the concern for their children. They talk about putting their children first, yet have failed to protect them from this by broadcasting on live t.v that they hate each other to the point of divorce. What about the kids feeling like it's their fault or the perverts that now now that the are worth so much and vulnerable....We know what state they live in, what their house looks like, the scenery of their town, not to mention the children's names, it's some sickos out there..... To risk everything all for money, which is hard to stomach. I wonder how Eileen O’Neill, the president of TLC or the Jon & Kate, can look at themselves in the mirror knowing what their network is doing to these exploited children.

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LADIES, LADIES,LADIES......WHAT IS WRONG WITH US AS A WHOLE. I' AM NOT HERE TO MAKE JUDGEMENT ON YOUR LIFE, BUT TO SHARE MY OPINION. NOW BE THAT AS IT MAY...FOR A SHORT TIME (APPROX. 9 DAYS) I WAS THE OTHER WOMAN....*INSERT VINCENT PRICE SHOCK MUSIC* BUT FOR MY WEEK AND TWO DAYS, I HAVE 9 YEARS. I' AM NO BETTER THAN ANYONE BUT AFTER MY ONE NIGHT AFFAIR WITH FRANKY (THAT WAS BROKEN UP, BUT STILL LIVING WITH THE X) I KNEW WHAT I WANTED ...I WAS HOOKED AND AFTER SHE PROFESSED THE SAME FEELINGS TO ME, I GAVE HER A WEEK TO TELL HER OR I WAS AKA THE ULTIMATUM. AND WE TOLD HER TOGETHER. THAT'S JUST MY LIFE. HOWEVER, YOU ALL OUT HERE IS DOING YALL SHIT GRIMMY......AND WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOUR CONSCIENCE...WHERE ARE YOUR MORALS, ESPECIALLY THE MARRIED ONES.....OK SO YOU F^CKED UP AND AFTER COCKTAILS YOU BECAME SLUTTY AND MADE OUT OR HAD SEX WITH THE MARRIED PERSON....AFTER THAT IT'S NOT OK TO CALL,TEXT,WRITE,VISIT, THAT PERSON....THEY ARE MARRIED. AND OKAY IF MAYBE THAT PERSON SAYS THEY FEEL THE SAME WAY AND WANTS OUT OF THEIR MARRIAGE....WELL HOW LONG ARE YALL WAITING, HAVING SEX, BEING THE OTHER WOMAN...THE ADULTERESS. IS IT WORTH IT, TO HAVE LONELY NIGHTS, NO SPECIAL OCCASIONS, AND IF SO YOU STILL LOOK DESPERATE, PATHETIC, AND INSECURE, AND YOU WILL ALWAYS BE KNOWN TO EVERYONE AS "THE WHORE" MIGHT AS WELL BURN THAT SCARLET "A" IN YOUR CHEST YOURSELF. BUT SERIOUS LADIES DON'T YOU KNOW THAT YOU ARE ONLY BEING USED, EVEN IF "MARRIED" SPENDS TIME WITH YOU, TAKES YOU TO DINNER, HAVES SEX WITH YOU, SAYS THEY LOVE YOU...IT'S ONLY BECAUSE THEY ARE MAD AT THEIR SPOUSE OR THEY ARE FEELING INSECURE THAT DAY,WEEK,MONTH,YEAR WHATEVER....YOU WILL ALWAYS JUST BE "SECOND BEST" THE FLUFFER ON THE MOVIE SITE OF A PORN*(THE WHORE THAT SICKS UNTIL THEY ARE HARD FOR THE WOMAN STARRING IN THE MOVIE)

I SAY ALL OF THIS JUST TO SAY TO WANT MORE FOR YOURSELVES...GET MARRIED, BE SINGLE & FABULOUS, GET A CAREER, GET A HOBBY OTHER THAN THAT OF SOMEONE ELSE PARTNER,MAN,WOMAN,GIRLFRIEND,BOYFRIEND,WIFE, OR HUSBAND, IN THE LONG RUN ITS NOT WORTH IT BECAUSE IF THEY WANTED TO BE WITH YOU.... THEY WOULD HAVE TOOK THAT *ULTIMATUM IMMEDIATELY AND YALL WOULD BE IN A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP NOW!

BE GOOD TO YOURSELF!!!!

A ROSE UNLIKE ANY OTHER!!!!

Amber Rose a model and rumored close friend of Rihanna, is dating Kanye West.

Okay this Bitch IS BAD!!!!!!!!!!!! I think i'am in love....Omg, she has fashion sense, she buys expensive shoes and bags, she gorgeous and Clearly likes to hang out with Fags.....Introducing my new BFF!!!

Look out for her....I have a feeling she's gonna be BIG!

MEGA MAKEOVER!!!!!!

WOW ....THAT IS A REAL MAKEOVER, BUT KIM HAS ALWAYS BEEN A BEAUTY AND AS FAR AS HER BODY SHE HAS MATURED VERY WELL, SHE HAS BLOSSOMED INTO A BEAUTIFUL YOUNG LADY, AND HER BODY IS MORE FAMOUS THEN HER. BUT WHAT I LIKE ABOUT HER THAT BESIDES A {SLIP} OF HER *SEX TAPE, I THINK SHE IS A VERY TACTFUL YOUNG LADY, WITH A GREAT BUSINESS MIND. HER SHOW IS A LITTLE "TOO PRECIOUS" FOR MY TASTE , BUT I KNOW ALOT OF PEOPLE THAT LIVE BY IT. ALL AND ALL, I LIKE WHERE SHE IS GOING WITH HER CAREER AND RELATIONSHIP *(WE ALL KNOW WHAT SHE LIKE BEST ABOUT REGGIE*) LOL!

(THIS IS ONE OF THE EPISODES..WATCH IT SEE WHAT YOU THINK!!!!)

http://www.eonline.com/videos/v24037205001_kardashians_caught_in_the_act.html

HAPPY K.K DAY!!!!

THE OBAMA'S IN THE SACK?

WASHINGTON (June 5) - For all the smiling photos of Barack and Michelle Obama, the couple went through a tough time in their marriage in earlier years, according to a new book.
"Renegade," by journalist Richard Wolffe, says the couple's marriage was strained by Barack Obama's unsuccessful 2000 run for Congress. Wolffe writes that Michelle Obama "hated the failed race for Congress in 2000, and their marriage was strained by the time their youngest daughter, Sasha, was born a year later."Skip over this content
Obama's Ascent to Power

In just eight years, Barack Obama rocketed from a failed congressional aspirant to the first African-American candidate to win the White House. Here, the president and first lady Michelle Obama walk out of St. John's Episcopal Church in Washington on Jan. 20, the day of his inauguration.

"There was little conversation and even less romance," Wolffe writes. "She was angry at his selfishness and careerism; he thought she was cold and ungrateful."When Obama ran for the Senate in 2004, his wife still had mixed feelings about her husband's love of politics, and played no part in the campaign, the book says.
By the time Obama decided to run for president, the couple's two children were older and Michelle Obama was more supportive.

Okay I know we all love our Obama's but I'm sorry is this really any of our business; I mean who cares about their love life ....and I should also make a point to say that they only made it clear that the "Obama's " are not super hero's and that their marriage has problems like any marriage. In alot of ways this is sooo not news however, it serves the point that they are only human....just like you and me!



HAPPY OBAMA DAYS!!!

RELATIONSHIP FRIDAYS

Ménage à trois

The French phrase ménage (household), à (of), trois (three) literally translates as "household of three." Simply put, a ménage à trois is a romantic relationship in which three people, such as a married couple and a lover, live together and have sexual relations;A living arraignment comprising three people in a sexual relationship. Alternatively,

a sexual liaison between such a group of people.

OK, IM FEELING VERY FRENCH ABOUT THIS SUBJECT....WHO FEELS THAT THIS ACT IS SOOO NOT ON THE LIST? AND HOW

MANY OF YOU FREAKS GET IT ON MENAGE A TROIS STYLE 6-8 TIMES A YEAR? THIS IS A SITUATION MEANT TO BE QUESTIONED BY ONES OWNSELF. HOWEVER, I DO THINK IF YOUR DOING IT TO PLEASE YOUR MATE/PARTNER THEN IT MAY NOT BE A GOOD IDEA ON YOUR BEHALF. JUST LOOK AROUND IN SOME CLASSIFIEDS, PEOPLE ARE REALLY INTO THIS...ALOT! OKAY SO NOW FOR THE REALLY BIG QUESTION: IS THREESOMES HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP BEHAVIOR? AND I POSE AN EVEN BETTER QUESTION: ARE MARRIED PEOPLE SUPPOSE TO HAVE THAT "KIND " OF SEX (NO JUDGEMENT) OR IS THAT JUST A CHEEP PLOY TO CHEAT?

IN MY OWN MARRIAGE, I CAN HONESTLY SAY THAT WE HAVE NEVER WENT "FRENCH" BUT ASKING THESE QUESTIONS SURE MAKES A RAISE OF THEE EYEBROW ^..UUUHHMM!

INTRO TO "RELATIONSHIP FRIDAYS"

THIS IS A FRIDAY FORUM TO GET YOU READY FOR YOUR WEEKEND SOCIAL EVENTS. A LITTLE SOMETHING TO SET YOUR GOALS IN PLAY FOR WHAT YOU WANT THIS WEEKEND AS WELL AS WHAT YOU WANT FOR LIFE.

MONOGAMY

Seriously ladies, is it to be expected when not discussed? How can you be exclusive when the other persons definition of that word is not defined? One may think that if they are dating you, but still *BANGING* (for lack of a curse word) their ex....then its still monogamy because the ex was there first(before you). I know it sounds like B.S. but some people think like that. So I implore you, while having the time of your life being swept off your feet, put your values down and your bottom line into play. So many women *(more than men) are worried that they can scare a person off by telling them what your looking for, but just look at it this way...if you tell them and they in turn leave, that's less time that you wasted on them hoping they was Mr/Ms. Right when in actuality they were only Mr/Ms. Right now.